Now she admits she had sex with another man before we got married while we were dating and talking about marriage. She changed my life and has been the inspiration to change myself. I am going insane I know she is cheating but she will not confess. I went home, called with my mom, called with his little brother, texted with his mom his parents told him that he really needs to talk to me and they all told me to calm down and go to sleep, so I did. He is a good father, but was never a good husband.
Be strong and trust God and nature,he will bring you to the best. I refused to take his calls, to answer his texts, to encourage him in any way. Mind you he has access to my phone and I have no social media at all. More to the point, I snapped on her because of her accusation that this random message I knew everything about. Yet, she treats me good and sometimes it seems as if she isn't mad and loves me dearly.
Our house was more than two miles away, I had to walk home. That will be hard as been there before with my ex and that didnt go to plan at all. I scheduled the polygraph, paid for it and insisted on it. With much manly love, — Stephen. I suggested going back on medication and it was not well received either. One morning, while he was at work, I found a tissue on his computer.
Good point: the amount of detail each guy needs to know depends on the guy. I am not sure what you were doing that you lied about that was so unbelievable that when you told her she still didn't believe it. He has gone storming to my parents, screaming about their fucking cheating daughter. So, you can see that innocent little things like the text message above can be taken the wrong way by a boyfriend who is looking for evidence against you. Have been threatened with a loaded gun, called motherfucker in front of our 3 kids, he likes to smash stuff in the house when mad, talks about lewd things he thinks ive done with other men in front of our children.
Well he continues about 4 more times bringing his friends over and listen to the audios over and over accusing me of having quiet sex with him in the other room. Immediately I said this he called me a cheater. My wife was perfect and pure… and the enemy got in and tried to cause all of this pain and suffering…. Adjust your behavior to preserve your marriage and to make your wife happy! I continued to see other people. Yes mate, thats why you deal drugs and still live at home with mummy when your in your thirties. This time I felt appalled and disgusted at myself. And last week my boyfriend got to know about our secret friendship and brokeup with me saying that I gave more importance to that person than my bf.
What should I do, I really want to get back together with him. The last straw was when he was supposed to come home after a 2 week business trip and instead he left out of state. She has said that if she ever sees her out that it is on. We are animals with instinct to reproduce before we are metamorphosized spirits beyond the ego, and that will always be the dilemma. I cannot blame her for this, every guy even myself has had fantasies.
She is so worried about what everyone else thinks. This is exactly the kind of relationship In most cases, worse men all over the world, force millions of women to live; and they do, though hurt and broken but with every ounce of faithfulness a human could possibly conjure. Shortly after we were married we moved to the middle east. Sure enough, I found the texts of them planning their meeting. Sunday is usually family day being I work 6 days a week and take up sidejobs after work in order to provide my family with a better life. I am well I dont know any words to describe it.
Please remember, that I am an imperfect human being like all others. Seriously even if you were cheating I know you're not but for the sake of the arguement you'd still tell her you aren't. This is when I really began to realize that I did not know my wife anymore. She wears the sexiest outfits she has when she goes out with her friends, I mean I am her husband, who does she want to show it off to? We were unable to have kids throughout our 7 year marriage so we were trying fertility medication. It was stupid I know and I am going to counseling I have an appoint ment after holidays as that was soonest I could get an appointment. Well not all, some situations.
You should never bring your life to a standstill for a man. I get that I do, but we are married with two children, a mortgage, car payments, and other loans. He played guitar, which is a big turn on for me, and we shared an interest in classic rock. Keep in mind that all of this happened in one night. I need to do somethint to put an end to this as soon as possible before I snap. The problem is, I can't really give you advice here, because I don't know what her good side looks like, so I can't tell you how to reach for it.