It's sometimes a bit tiring, but it's not boring. You can break the boredom, just have to take that first step. Most of it has been directions approaches but at least I'm getting out there. This goes back to leaving your comfort zone. Others focus their minds on a job they are passionate about. If you want real adventure, if you want real change, then you have to step outside of your comfort bubble. For all things that I have heard of my father I have made known unto you.
Speaking of relationships, you should get a boyfriend or a girlfriend, silly! Fear can be a factor when folks just nudge themselves toward doing a task. And it's slowly killing me from the inside. Thanks was given for the land. Problem is, where is there to go? Labor and toil came in with sin. When I did have the time, I often did not have the money and could not afford to pay for a sitter. I know I can travel, but I can't do that every day, can I? John 3:1, Romans 10:8-12 Confess and believe in your heart…. Not only does it make you less predictable, you can also become more spontaneous and less likely to do the same thing day in and day out.
I know I can still have a life or pursuit of women at the same time as doing more productive things but I'm at a loss as to what to do with my life outside of work and outside of looking for women. Think about the things that really inspire you to go and improve your life and improve you as a person one step at a time. This past weekend, I stumbled upon all of these old scrapbooks I used to make just for fun back in high school. In my time in the seduction community, I've met many guys like this also. I want to bulk up because I'm super skinny, why? Variety, variety, variety — life has such a smorgasbord to offer us, that sticking to that which you know is, well, boring.
Imagine your life the way you wish you could live it and focus on it every waking moment of your life. Because, to the Earth, we are nothing but parasites to her. I live in a safe neighborhood. Uncover the real reason why life can be so boring Do you feel your life has meaning and purpose? The sad part of it all is if I strip away the primal urge to find a woman for companionship and sex. I would freeze or become silent because I was so afraid of what other people might think of me. It really doesn't matter what your particular skills are.
If you want to be interesting, then you need to be interested in doing things. To be in your own universe is great! I'm currently living a life where all I do is go out to try and meet women, when I come home I log onto the crappy online dating websites to meet women, I read dating blogs and forums and get bombarded with dozens of bullshit emails from marketting chumps, who claim they got a system that can transform you into the man women want, which for some stupid reason I keep signing up to. There are plenty of ways you could shake up your life though. But to be honest for a while my motivation has been down. Or you could get the support and advice of a licensed therapist - or even a trusted friend. Do you know what people find boring? I believe in effort creating results.
Are you still learning, regardless of your age or academic inclination? You can't wait for anarchy to fallout just to give you an escape from your boredom. We read so many articles about how to make yourself high value so you can date high value you women, but what has a high value woman ever done to deserve a high value man, other than look great? To say that it was hard for me to do and try new things is an understatement and my situation only compounded issues for me. The taliban were brutal fruitcakes but a lot of the people liked them because they enforced order. Yup, whether you agree or nah ,solution to your problem lies here only. Start stockpiling food, ammo, and water. A boredom born from a glut of options rather than an absence.
The people I work with are all elderly so there no real chance of real friendships there. If you want an interesting, exciting life, then embrace change. Maybe you need a holiday, a break from all the thinking, or to think about making changes in your life. We use beautiful words to conceal our dirty deeds, but a truth no one can deny is that, to the Earth herself, we humans are nothing more than parasites. There is a good reason for you to be in this world so there is no time to be bored with life.
You must want to have an open mind. On an average day, I speak to some interesting people, read about the world's suffering and Drake and Theresa May, and watch go-pro videos of bears chasing cyclists. Even on your way to work, which may seem like the most mundane thing ever, take in the weather, the sounds, the sights. People keep asking you to hang out and you keep saying no. So why does it seem so difficult to get God to communicate with us on a regular basis? Sometimes I get frustrated enough to try something new - pick up a new hobby rock climbing or start a new healthy habit lifting, running or try something new new restaurant, new place to explore, etc.
It sets the tone for a mellower, happier day. And then I will ask this one…perhaps the most important question of them all…. Before you go to bed, rehash your day and find gratitude for everything that happened to you that day. I enjoy learning new things in class but when at home I cannot be bothered to work on it. Here are some resources to start you off - for free just copy and paste the link into your browser address bar : You could take a course to advance or change your career via Edx.
I want to go and make a coffee. The temperature and the vegetation might vary but why would that matter. It still needs movement to function well. You need to get off the couch, come away from your desk, and your computer, laptop or any other screen. My rucksack has currently got two Penguin classics and a relatively short nonfiction on Afrofuturism I got for Christmas. Are mental health problems preventing you from meeting your essential emotional needs? You know what the difference is between you and a person who has plans for this Saturday night? She also enjoyed food with me after that we had lot of chit chat and I'm not feeling boring anymore. Solution: Spend more time outside of work.